Dear Linda,
MY ex and I are friends with benefits. She wants us to get back together but I don’t want to.
I’m 25, she’s 32. She was always paranoid that I was cheating. Her insecurities got worse and I couldn’t hack it, so I dumped her.
I was enjoying being single, going out with my mates and having a good time, though I did miss her a bit.
She wouldn’t leave me alone. She texted me constantly, asking to see me, then she waited for me after work one evening.
She said she just wanted to talk. I still had some feelings for her so I agreed. We had a lot to drink and I ended up going back to hers for sex.
She told me she had been flirting with other guys on Facebook. She said that was all but I don’t know whether to believe her. I did feel a bit jealous.
She keeps telling me she wants to get back with me. She says she realises she was impossible and swears she’s changed, but I know it won’t work. We’d be back to square one very quickly.
Just lately she keeps turning up at my local and we have a few drinks and later have sex. I think the sex is messing with my head, because I don’t know whether to give her another chance.
There are so many reasons why we split up. For instance I never know whether she is telling the truth. She had her two children taken away from her during her last relationship. She told me some reasons why. I believed her but nobody else does, because what she says doesn’t make sense.
My family and friends think I would be mad to have her back. please advice
Go for her if you love her she might have what you will neva find in your next girl so hold on to what you have
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